Volume Five, Number Two             May, 2008              Feel Free to Share With Others

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Real Happiness
an Interview with Paul Ferrini

Question: Many of your books have been translated into Dutch and published in Holland. What is your latest book and what is it about?

Paul Ferrini: My latest book is entitled Real Happiness. It presents a Roadmap for Healing and Transformation that will help people step into their power and purpose here on the planet.

Question: Will you talk about this book in your lecture in Holland on May 9, 2008?

Paul Ferrini: Yes. I will introduce the Roadmap for Healing and Transformation and give people an idea of the life-changing experiential work that I have been developing during the last three years and will be presenting during the weekend workshop I am giving in Holland.

Question: What is your background and where are you now?

Paul Ferrini: I have written some 40 books now on Love, Healing and Forgiveness and have taught spiritual workshops and retreats for thirty years.   This experience has taught me what is necessary to bring about a real, lasting change in a person’s consciousness and experience.  The Real Happiness Workshop condenses the work of 30 years into a weekend workshop that can change people's lives.

Question: Can you tell us a little about what Real Happiness is and if it is possible for all of us?

Paul Ferrini: Sure.  Real Happiness is not about the outer shell, image or mask, but about the inner core.  It is not about how good we look to others, or about our ability to please them and get their approval.  It is about how we feel about ourselves in our hearts.
     In other words, happiness is an internal state not an external condition. It is not about surface things like money, lifestyle, possessions, role or image.  It is not about what we do or what we have, but about who we are and how we feel about ourselves.
       And yes, Real happiness is possible for all of us. There is no defect or deficiency in us that prevents us from being happy.  However, there are false beliefs that need to be challenged and hurts that need to be healed so that we can open our hearts fully to love and to life.

Question: What will people learn from your Real Happiness Work?

Paul Ferrini:  Just imagine what your life would be like if you believed in yourself and knew you had a gift to share; you could move forward with your dreams instead of questioning them; you could face life problems without fear; you loved yourself no matter what happened!
     The Real Happiness work helps us heal our deepest wounds and establish a solid connection with our True Self. It shows us how to stand in our strength, attract honest, fulfilling relationships, and create meaningful work that expresses our true talents and gifts.

Question: Can we ever find Real Happiness with others?

 Yes, but  Real Happiness doesn't start with others. It starts with our relationship with ourselves.  It requires that we accept ourselves radically. It requires that we take others off the hook and begin to take responsibility for loving ourselves.  Once we learn to do that, it is not hard to love and accept others.   

Question: What spiritual work do we need to do to be really happy?

Paul Ferrini: To be really happy, we need to learn to love and accept ourselves unconditionally. We need to move through our pain and heal our hurts and forgive ourselves and others for past trespass or injury. And, most importantly, we need to learn to take responsibility for what we think, feel, say and do and stop blaming others for our problems. That means that we have to stop feeling sorry for ourselves and living as a victim. 

Question: It sounds like a lot of work.

Paul Ferrini: Yes. The path of healing and empowerment is challenging, but it leads to real change and transformation.  On the other hand, the rocketship to heaven promises a quick journey, but it runs out of gas  all too quickly.  Those who are looking for a happiness pill that they can swallow are bound to be disappointed.  Every short cut I have seen people take leads to a cul-de-sac. In the end, we all have to come back and do the emotional healing work that will open our hearts to the presence of love.

Question:Does one have to be an advanced spiritual student to do the Real Happiness work?

Paul Ferrini: No. This work is for everyone who wants to heal. We are all in various stages of the healing and empowerment process. Yet all of us can heal more deeply and move into closer alignment with our spiritual purpose.  This is the goal of The Real Happiness Workshop. It helps us take the next step – whatever it is – on our healing journey.

Question: Thank you for sharing this information with us.  We know that many people will want to come to your lecture and workshop in Holland.

Paul Ferrini: You're welcome.  I look forward to meeting many of my Dutch readers in person during my lecture and workshop in Holland.

Cl;ick here to read Paul’s Real Happiness Article from a previous newsletter.

Upcoming Spiritual Events with Paul Ferrini

Real Happiness Workshop in the Netherlands May 9-11, 2008

A Friday Night Lecture will be given in Amsterdam May 9, 2008
and the Real Happiness Weekend Workshop will be in Deurne at
the Willibrordhaeghe Conference Center, a former monastry
located in the countryside near the German border.

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for more information and/ or contact Heart Events
www.heartevents.nl   31 (0)30 67 71 664/.

European Spiritual Mastery Retreat May 16-19, 2008 near Stuttgart, Germany

For more information about Paul’s Spiritual Mastery Retreats, click here.

Professional Training May 19-21, 2008 near Stuttgart, Germany
Join Paul Ferrini in this training for Psychotherapists, Counselors,
Social Workers, Ministers, Coaches and Other Human Service Professionals.
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  • Prepare to be a Real Happiness Workshop Leader
  • Attract new clients who are ready to heal
  • Become a skilled guide to clients in spiritual crisis
  • Learn a new paradigm approach that integrates the best of
    psychology and spirituality
  • Deepen in your own healing and empowerment
  • Renew your work so you can fulfill your purpose as a helper and healer

Real Happiness Workshops in the USA  Fall, 2008

  • Columbia, South Carolina October 24-26, 2008
  • Santa Barbara, California  November 14-16, 2008

New Distance Learning Option
for Real Happiness Students and Teachers in Training

Can’t attend a Real Happiness workshop or Teacher Training in person? 
Take advance of our new distance learning option! Our next 13-Week Real Happiness
Teleconference for students/teachers in training begins September 19, 2008. 
Click here for more information.

Recent Publications

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The most important books I have read.  I study them like a bible.    Elisabeth Kubler-Ross

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